A brand new day, with no mistakes…YET!

This has to be one of my favourite quotes….

“My therapist told me the way to achieve true inner peace is to finish what I start. So far I’ve finished two bags of M&M’s and a chocolate cake. I feel better already.” Mind you, it does NOTHING for my diet! LOL!

I could certainly do with a little inner peace though. I am struggling to keep my frustration under control. My X hasn’t seen littleman in about 5 weeks. He spoke briefly with littleman on Sunday evening but quite frankly, I think littleman is getting frustrated with him too. When X called, littleman clearly said “can’t talk long dad, I’m watching the football game”. Ummmmm…in other words, the game is a wee bit more important than your lack of efforts! Oh ya, X said to littleman that he was going to try to make it out to see him weekend after next…..did I mention that he can barely manage 3 hour visits?

I haven’t seen any child support in over 3 months. Did I mention that it is  supposed to be coming directly out of his pay cheques and going straight to the Family Responsibility Office and then to me. When I called the FRO, they informed me that they had received a letter from his place of employment stating that the person who was looking after that department is no longer there and there was a mix up with the new person not realizing what was to be done..yadda yadda yadda….so apparently this is supposed to make everything ok….NOT! The guy is SERIOUSLY behind in payments.  $16,650 behind!  It’s NOT ok. After speaking with the FRO rep, not only am I supposed to be receiving my regular support, but since December I was also supposed to be receiving an added amount to slowly chip away at his arrears…I haven’t seen any of this added amount! Hmmmmm….not good!

I think I’ll be sending ’someone’ a little e-mail letting him know about all of this…..

………and to aid with the inner peace, I must invest in some M&M’s for the office! LOL!